“Those who live according to the sinful nature have their minds set on what that nature desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires.”
Romans 8:5 (NIV
The “ice storm
of all time” hit our part of the state where I live a few years ago. Schools
were closed, electricity was out for about a week, and everyone scrambled to
find ways to heat their homes. Had it not been for so many problems due to the
storm, the sheer beauty of ice on the trees would have been breathtaking.
Instead, people
found themselves with damage to their yards and trees because of the ice snapping
one massive limb after another and forcing each one to plummet toward the ground,
leaving deep scars from the impact of the fall. I was not exempt from that
damage in my yard.
I had an
enormous oak tree on the south side of my home that was my best friend in the
summer because of the shade it provided. The branches were huge, the tree
majestic. But as I began the process of cleaning up my yard after the storm, I discovered
that a very large dead limb at the top of this tree had given in to the weight
of the ice and had crashed to the ground, taking with it three healthy limbs.
As I looked at
the damage, my mind switched to the “dead limbs” that we all have in our lives.
Maybe it’s gossip or jealousy or an anger issue or always having to be right.
Whatever they might be, the dead limbs in our lives can do unbelievable damage
to our family, our friends, and even to people around us that we might not know
well. But they do something else, too. They also damage our relationship with God.
We are very
foolish if we think that our wrong choices will have no consequences and that
people will not be hurt or relationships ruined. “Yes, I am having an affair,”
my friend told me, “but it only affects the two of us. Nobody will get hurt.” My
heart broke in pieces. Nobody hurt? What about your husband and children and his
wife and the fact that you have destroyed their trust by your actions? One dead
branch – an affair – fell, and it took with it several once-healthy branches of
spouses and children and trust.
A young man that
I had encouraged to take a different path and stop using drugs took me by the
arms and said “Listen, I know you care about me. I get it. But just leave me
alone and let me do my drugs. Nobody is getting hurt. I’m fine. It’s my life.” And with each police report in the paper with
his name in bold type, his family and friends who love him become casualties
from the dead branch of drugs.
Our gift from
the Lord – the ability to communicate with Him – is broken when we engage in
behavior that does not glorify Him or reflect His will for our lives. David
knew that. He wrote in Psalm 66:18 “If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord
would not have listened . . .” David had found out the hard way that cherishing
(taking pleasure in) behavior outside of the will of God results in heartache,
a broken relationship with God and consequences. As the dead branch fell –
lusting after Bathsheba, a married woman – it ultimately resulted in the death
of his son. A healthy branch, a son,
taken down by a father’s dead branch choice.
I encourage you this
very moment to examine your life for any dead branches that are hiding in your
life, threatening to come crashing down and taking healthy branches with them. Any
focus outside of the will of God in your life will affect those around you and
they will be hurt, or in some cases, even destroyed. And your relationship with
God will be hurt as well. When you identify the dead limbs, repent, give them
to the Lord and ask Him to help you cut them off as quickly as possible. Then
kneel before Him as He removes each branch and pulls you back into His presence.
Lord, forgive
me for allowing sin in my life and for thinking that I can do whatever I want
without hurting those I love. Please give me strength and courage as I cut off
any branches in my life that do not glorify and honor you. In Jesus’ Name.
Amen.
R.A.P. it up . . .
Reflect
- What
branches do you have in your life that you have been trying to hide from
the Lord?
- Think
through each branch. What could be the result of holding on to these
branches? Loved ones hurt? Relationships destroyed? Is the branch worth
the pain it may cause?
Apply
- Dig
into the Word and ask the Lord to show you those branches in your life
that do not glorify Him.
- Make a
list with the name of each branch and offer them all up to the Lord. Burn
the paper as your offering to Him and your desire to reconnect with Him
and His will for your life.
Power
- Romans
8:5 (NIV) “Those who live according to the sinful nature have their minds
set on what that nature desires; but those who live in accordance with the
Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires.”
- I
Corinthians 10:31(NIV) “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do
it all for the glory of God.”
- Psalm
66:18 (NIV) “If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have
listened . . . “
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