“These commandments
that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your
children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the
road, when you lie down and when you get up.”
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (NIV)
“Children Say
the Darndest Things” was a popular television show years ago hosted by the
famous personality Art Linkletter. He would ask children several innocent
questions about everyday life and then simply sit back and listen to their
hilarious answers. It was funny to me because they weren’t MY children
answering. But one day that all changed
.
My three-year-old
daughter and I stopped at our church to leave some information with the
secretary when the minister came in the door. He gave us a big smile and
greeting and then said “My goodness, I can’t believe how hot it is out there,
even for August! It’s terrible! I can hardly stand it!”
Immediately my
little daughter piped up “My mother says you should always remember Philippians
2:14. Do everything without grumbling or complaining.” Silence. Well, except
for the moment my jaw dropped and hit the floor. But before I could think of a
thing to say, the minister stepped in.
“You know what?
You are exactly right. I should not complain about something like hot weather
because before long I will be complaining about cold weather. I just need to
thank the Lord for what He has given us.” A gracious man with a gracious
answer.
What he didn’t
know was that I had been repeating that particular Scripture over and over to
my two older children as I explained to them why it was so important to get rid
of the habit of complaining about everything – like they had been doing.
What I hadn’t realized
was that my youngest child – the one I hadn’t even been speaking to – had been
listening to my talks with her siblings and had memorized those wise words from
the Lord.
Deuteronomy
6:6-7 is vitally important to those of us raising children and grandchildren in
today’s world. It says “These commandments that I give you today are to be upon
your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at
home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” The
message is twofold.
First, as a
parent or grandparent, we need to understand why God has given us these
commandments to “be upon your hearts.” In order to be able to differentiate
between what He wants in our lives and what the world says is important, we must
look for truth – truth that is only found in the Bible. It’s virtually
impossible for us to share what we have not read. So, we must dig in the Word.
Every day
.
Secondly, we are
told to share that truth from the Lord with our children, no matter where we
are: driving to a basketball game; at bedtime; around the dinner table, while
our little ones are splashing in the bathtub.
Now understand
that does not mean that we follow them around, shouting Scriptures and
demanding they shout them back until every word is memorized! What it does mean
is using those teachable moments to share how a truth from God’s Word could
help guide them or their friends in a tough situation. And, perhaps even more
importantly, remembering that they are listening BUT also watching to see if we
live what we teach.
My encouragement
to each of you is to soak up God’s Word in your hearts so you can always be
ready to share with your children what the Creator of the Universe wants for
their lives.
Father, I
desire with all my heart for my children and grandchildren to know your Word
and to know you. Please guide me as I share your heart with them. In Jesus’
Name. Amen.
R.A.P. it up . . .
Reflect
- Can you
remember the last Scripture you shared with your children? Are you living
what you are teaching?
- What was the reason you told them they
needed to memorize it and its meaning?
Apply
- In your
study of God’s Word, memorize a Scripture each week that you can share
with your children.
- Watch
for moments when you can share that Scripture with them and explain how it
has helped you in your life. Encourage them to memorize the Scripture.
Power
- Deuteronomy
6:6-7 (NIV) “These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your
hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at
home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get
up.”
- Isaiah
55:11 (NIV) “So is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return
to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for
which I sent it.”
- Proverbs
22:6 (NIV) “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old
he will not turn from it.”
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