“Those who live
according to the sinful nature have
their minds set on
what that nature desires;
but those who live in
accordance with
the Spirit have their
minds set on
what the Spirit
desires.”
Romans 8:5 (NIV)
Several years
ago, we had the “ice storm of all time” hit our part of the state. Schools were
closed, electricity was out for about a week, and everyone in our town scrambled
to find ways to heat their homes.
Had it not been
for so many problems due to the storm, the sheer beauty of ice on the trees
would have been breathtaking. Instead, people found themselves with damage to
their yards and trees because of the weight of the ice snapping one big limb
after another and forcing each one to plummet toward the ground, leaving deep
scars from the impact of the fall. My yard was not exempt from that damage.
A massive oak
tree on the south side of my home was my best friend in the summer because of
the shade it provided. The branches were huge, the tree majestic but now,
unfortunately, the damage from the ice enormous.
As I began the
process of cleaning up my yard after the storm, I discovered that a very large
dead limb at the top of the oak tree had given in to the weight of the ice and
had crashed to the ground, taking with it three healthy limbs in its downward
fall.
Isn’t that what
happens when we sin? One willful wrong word or thought or action can quickly
spread to hurt everyone around us. We are very foolish if we think that our wrong
choices will have no consequences and that people will not be hurt or
relationships ruined.
“Yes, I am
having an affair,” my friend confessed to me, “but it only affects the two of
us. Nobody will get hurt.” My heart broke in two. Nobody get hurt? What about
your husband and his wife and all the children and the fact that you have
destroyed their trust by your actions?
One dead branch
– an affair – fell and it took with it several once-healthy branches of spouses
and children and trust and marriages.
A former student
that I was encouraging to take a different path and stop using drugs took me by
the arms and said “Listen, I know you care about me. I get it. But just leave
me alone and let me do my drugs. Nobody is getting hurt. I’m fine. It’s my life.”
And with each
police report in the paper with his name in bold type, his family and friends
who loved him become casualties from the dead branch of drugs.
What dead limbs do
we have in our lives? Maybe it’s gossip or jealousy or an anger issue or always
having to be right. Whatever they may be, the dead limbs in our lives can do
unbelievable damage to our family, our friends, and even to people around us
that we might not know well.
But they do
something else, too. They also damage our relationship with God. Our gift from
the Lord – the ability to communicate with Him – is broken when we engage in
behavior that does not glorify Him or reflect His will for our lives. David
knew that. He wrote in Psalm 66:18 “If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord
would not have listened . . .”
David had found
out the hard way that cherishing (taking pleasure in) behavior outside of the
will of God results in heartache, a broken relationship with God and
consequences. As the dead branch fell – lusting after Bathsheba, a married
woman – it ultimately resulted in the death of David’s son. A healthy branch, a son, taken down by a
father’s dead branch choice.
I encourage you
today, this very moment, to examine your life for any dead branches that are
hiding in your life, threatening to come crashing down and taking healthy
branches with them.
Please know that
any focus outside of the will of God in your life will affect those around you
and they will be hurt, or in some cases, even destroyed. And your relationship
with God will be hurt as well.
Identify the
dead limbs in your life and repent, as you give them to the Lord. Then kneel
before Him as He removes each unhealthy branch and pulls you back into His
presence.
Lord, forgive my self-centeredness and my
focus on me. Forgive me for allowing sin to have a place in my life. Forgive me
for thinking that I can do whatever I want without hurting those I love. Please
give me strength and courage as I cut off any branches in my life that do not
glorify and honor you. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.
R.A.P. it up . . .
Reflect
- What
branches do you have in your life that you have been trying to hide from
the Lord?
- Think
through each branch. What could be the result of holding on to these
branches? Loved ones hurt? Relationships destroyed? Is the branch worth
the pain it may cause?
Application
- Dig
into the Word and ask the Lord to show you those branches in your life
that do not glorify Him.
- Make a
list with the name of each branch and offer them all up to the Lord. Burn
the list as your offering to God and your desire to reconnect with Him and
His will for your life.
Power Verses
- Romans
8:5 (NIV) “Those who live according to the sinful nature have their minds
set on what that nature desires; but those who live in accordance with the
Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires.”
- I
Corinthians 10:31(NIV) “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do
it all for the glory of God.”
- Psalm
66:18 (NIV) “If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have
listened. . .”
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